I was watching a movie today (Games men play), and I learnt a very important lesson about relationship. why are men never satisfied with their woman, this applies to married men aswell. The question at hand is why? My friend made a statement yesterday ” there is never a smoke, without fire”.
This goes to show that mens cheating games shouldnt be blamed on the devil!!!!! However its fair to say some men at times are persuaded into their wrong doings, also the downside of their relationship leads them into another woman’s hand.
But in reality no matter what any couple are going through, this is no reason for them to cheat. The best way is to talk about their problems with their partner, and only their partner; not outsiders e.g (FRIENDS) as friends at times are the ones who give out bad advice and have caused the break up of many couples to date.
Just to make thing clear, am not one to force couples together, I believe in good communication in a relationship. Couples should be able to talk to each other about anything, this way problems that may arise within the relationship, can get sorted by the couples and only the couples………. “Fine; parents, pastors, therapy consultants” are good to seek advice from, but only them can be the next step if couples find it hard to sort things out themselves.
But, once neither of these options work out for the couples. I truly believe separation is the next best thing, it’s better to be apart for a while or on a permanent basis. Rather than cheat!!!!!!!!!!! It’s better to respect you partner, by letting them go, instead of cheating on them.
More on relationships to come…………………….
Stay Blessed.
Kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2 responses to “Just in the moment.”
Ms.Zindzi
December 28th, 2009 at 22:30
Good post lady. And yeah, I am a firm believer now more than before that relatiosnhip issues should be kept in the relationship, and between the 2 ppl in the relationship. But I disagree with the part where you refered to a friend as an outsider. If someone is truely a friend, they can never be and should never be refered to as an outsider.
Keep posting.
Happy Holidays momma!
Titi
December 28th, 2009 at 23:21
Thanks for your comment, i always like to hear others perspective on things.